Everyone has an
innate need to feel important. That’s a universal truth. That is up there in
the ranks of ‘we all need to eat’ and ‘we all need to sleep’. That is
non-debatable and anyone who will say otherwise is absolutely stup!d.
That is why people “fall in love” with others. When someone makes them feel important and needed, they instinctively get attracted because their need is being met. They get the attention that they want, the knowing that there is someone else that gives a fuckk that they are alive, that in the billions and billions of people in this world, there is someone that would like to spend time with them over everyone else.
That is why people “fall in love” with others. When someone makes them feel important and needed, they instinctively get attracted because their need is being met. They get the attention that they want, the knowing that there is someone else that gives a fuckk that they are alive, that in the billions and billions of people in this world, there is someone that would like to spend time with them over everyone else.
No one falls in love with someone that makes them feel like a worthless piece of shit, right? “Love” always begins with a smile that melts hearts or a hello that was just a little softer than other hellos or a glance that lasted a second too long. It is always when someone makes you feel special.
Then you stay. You stay because you need a witness to your life. You need someone there to make you feel things you do don’t go unnoticed.
I don’t know if it is romantic but I do know it’s still about the self and not the other person.
It is vanity… not love.
Then there is the progression of it.
There is ONLY ONE FORM OF LOVE, the unconditional one. Cut my arms, take all my money, beat me up black and blue and I still love you. That is what love is - completely unselfish, understanding, beyond stupidity. Anything below that is bullshit. There is no other kind of Love.
Platonic love, parental love, romantic love... those are labels we give our relationships so we can compartmentalize our relationships. Love, however, has online kind. It's the relationships that has different kinds.
Love doesn’t fuckin’ end even if the other person doesn’t return the favor. The term ‘i’ve fallen out of love’ or ‘i don’t love you anymore’ is a complete contradiction and utter shit. If you stopped loving someone, you never loved that person at all. Love is forever, no ifs, no buts. You love someone once, you love that person forever, even if it is painful, even if it sounds stupid.
God did. God actually created us, gave us a beautiful world, gave us a beautiful life. Then we fucked him up. Then he retaliated by giving us His son to die for us. Shit. No way will I do that. I can’t imagine someone beating me up and still loving them after that. I honestly don’t think anyone is capable of that. Someone throws their shit at me all bets are off.
When people think and/or say they love someone, do they really know what they are saying? Or is it another kind of feeling that they simply call love?
I think it is not love – I don’t know it is but it’s not love and I can only hope for people to not adjust the meaning of love just to make themselves feel better. No one is capable of loving someone else — except maybe a parent to their children.
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