Heartbreaking BreakUp Letter

A broken heart is like a car crash. You see it coming back but it's too late to reverse. 

You were the greatest contradiction in my life. You made me a better person but you also made me realize my worst and sometimes it happens at the same time in the worst possible place at the best possible time. 

We are off the charts at our best but we grow ice cold at our worst. But just as at the brink of giving up, you always come back waving the white flag and when we do come back, it's like we going back to how we started... butterflies in our stomachs, excitement of the chase, i love yous in the middle of the night, stolen kisses in public place. 

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The Science of a Broken Heart

A 'broken heart' is not just drama, it certainly isn’t some disgusting lunacy, and most definitely not a product of  desparation. 

It is a traumatic physical event supported and solidified by science.

Takotsubo cardiomyopathy is the scientific term for what we commonly know as the 'broken heart syndrome'. It is triggered by an emotional or physical shock, very similar to the trauma or shock that someone who has gone through an accident or has heard of a shocking news experiences. However, the Takotsubo cardiomyopathy often affects women and puts a person in serious danger of up to 48 hours. 

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Letter to My Cheating Husband & All Cheaters

Don’t give me crap about the agony of falling in love with two people. If you were able to lie to one or both of us about having someone else, then you loved one more than the other or love neither. If you were able to hurt one or both of us, then you loved one less or loved neither. It's never equal. It will never be equal. 

You just loved yourself more. Too much more to want to have the best of both worlds maybe. I provide stability, she provides excitement? Maybe you want some guarantee. You want to make sure you have one in case you lose the other. 

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Thoughts of an Unattractive Girl

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To The Broken

We’ve all been through it or bound to go through it - the quintessential painfully funny experience of having a broken heart. Be it on a love we had and lost or the suffering of it even before possession.
Much as we all wish there is a scientific way of dealing with the emotional misery, coping is as relative as the psychosis of romantic jealousy. There is no proven formula, no tried and tested way out, no injectible immunity drug.

Options are many and insanity is powerfully silly.

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I Loved You...

I dont know why you ruined me...but no longer am i ruined...i want to tell you this, but theres no point in doing it...you wouldnt care in the slightest...nor do you care about me...

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I Know You Tried

Dear Sandra,

I am not mad at you. Not a bit. Despite all that you did and didn't do because I know you tried. 

I know you tried to love me. I know you struggled before making a decision to let me go. I know there were nights you thought about me. I know you never really forgot about me.

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Goodbye Letter to Ex-Husband

Hi Baby,

I guess I shouldn’t be calling you that. How are you doing? I am not sure actually if I will be sending this letter at all so writing this is really for me more than you.

Frankly, I’ve spent the last couple of months crying about what happened to us. I miss you. That’s all I do but today I woke up suddenly sick of both, crying and missing you. It is what prompted me to think a bit clearer.

One of the things that I realized is that I blame you for the break up of marriage. But I also blame me. It is, after all, the two of us that made up the marriage. I had my faults as much as you had yours. I don’t know, though, if I can say that yours weigh more than mine. I also know for sure that at this point, it doesn’t matter anymore. What matters more are the things that I learned because of everything that happened.

I entered our marriage certain we were going to last forever. I was sure no girl and no guy can ever come between us. For all it’s worth, I was right. Melix, as pretty and as passionate as you were with her, didn’t break up our marriage. She was a result rather than a cause. What I didn’t know is that if there is anyone who can destroy us, it is us and we did.

I think we failed to understand that love and romance are two separate things. Love is what should have taken over when there wasn’t any romance. Romance is what makes us want each other, makes us want to have sex, makes us want to look pretty and act nicely… love is more than that. It is what makes us want each other especially when we are not pretty or nice. When we lost the romance, it wasn’t a sign that our love disappeared, it was a sign that if we really loved each other we would fight through it until we find our way to romance again.

We should have known, too, that no matter how much we try, time will come when we will dislike each other. It’s just what happens when you spend are set to spend a lifetime with someone. You become too comfortable and you start seeing things you will end up disliking. These dislikes pile up and put it together with a legal obligation to bear with it, you have the sure fire way of hating someone. The key in making it through that is the decision to take the bad along with the good. There was no other way we could have made it through that unless we decided to accept those things and work our way around it.

I also wish one of us had some sense of humour. It would have gotten us through some really hard times. During nights when we were bored with each other, humour would have entertained us. It would have made the other not mind sticking around a bit longer. The natural predilection for humour would have also inspired us to look at the funny side of things instead of the irritating side.

We should have put more importance on patience. We are humans and we have limited supply of energy. We work. We get tired. We should have known that we wouldn’t always have the patience to listen to each other, tolerate each other, and put forward the best foot for each other.

We made a pact to always be honest but we never did make a promise how to deal with the truth when the truth becomes too painful. We should have known that as much as we would always want to hear the truth, we will not always like the truth. There were many truths I didn’t like about you and there were many truths about me that you said that I didn’t like. There were also many truths that I wish were lies.

I wish I could have given you everything you wanted and I wish you could have given me everything I wanted but we should have also known that wasn’t going to happen. No one person could be everything to anyone. At some point, you will need something or want something I can’t provide. We were bound to do something that will turn the other one off and it was bound to happen at the worst time.

Reality, that’s what set in and we didn’t have enough love to bear with it.

What we should have never let go is faith in each other and in ourselves. We should have had faith that no matter how bad things were becoming, we would find our way back to each other.

This marriage did not make me lose faith in marriage but it did make my expectations more realistic. That will surely make me want to work harder in my next relationship.



Lastly, I want to thank you for everything. Not everything was bad. I want to think that all the bad thrown together will never measure to the half of the good we shared. I was happy for a time and it was the kind that some people can only dream of.

Believe it or not, I do wish you well with Melix and I really do hope that someday we could be friends. I can’t do it now but maybe someday.

Finally, I am going to do what you had done even before we separated, I am moving on.

Goodbye.



With love still,



Shin

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A Letter To My Father's Mistress

Dear my father's mistress,

I only know you from the things I hear from my father and mother and my mom told me never to judge people I don’t know personally. Actually, she taught me never to judge anyone period.

So, since I learned about my father’s affair to you, I have been doing my best not to judge you but I can’t feel but be angry at you. You are destroying our family and for some reason, I feel like I earn a hall pass to hate you because of that. I don’t know much about romantic love. My mom told me I am too young to fully understand its concept but there are thing I know for even at my young age.

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Unfaithful Boyfriend

Khlip,

I heard you talking to her.

I heard you telling her you love her.

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Kurt Cobain's Suicide Letter

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Letter of Forgiveness

Gerry,

There’s something I realized just now… I can’t blame you for anything that happened to me. The only fault you ever had is leaving us. Everything that happened after that is all on me.

I gave you too much power over me to think you were never with me. I allowed you to make the decisions on what I will do with my life, to think you never did anything for me to have one.

I can’t blame you for anything. It’s all on me.

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I Miss You: A Love Letter

I miss you constantly… all the time. It doesn’t pass. I wish it does… I usually take a moment waiting for it to pass. I try turning my attention to something else. I work, I write, I run, I exhaust myself to the point of helplessness just as so I will not have enough energy or time to miss you. But it just won’t go away. It takes over or co-exist with everything else inside or positions itself in between everything else. But it doesn’t go away.

I have never missed anyone this much that it makes my body ache literally. I tried crying. Tears have a magical way of allowing people to feel a little better under different circumstances. That’s useless too. I cry myself to sleep or I cry in the middle of work and I still would miss you with the same intensity, with the same passion, with the same pain. It’s just way too deep that even tears can’t reach it.

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Break Up Letter : Outgrowing A Relationship

Below is my boyfriend's letter to me after he said he wanted to break up. He couldn't give a cohesive explanation then so I asked him to think about it. This is what he came up with.

I know you deserve an explanation and I have spent the last couple of days just trying to figure out what happened between us. 

We started out so in love and so sure, much like most couples. I wasn’t lying to you then when I said that I wanted to someday marry you. That’s how I felt then and I never thought that would change. 

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A Letter to My Bestfriend

Dear Pedro,


Everyday for the last 14 years, you always make me feel how happy you are to see me come home.

You never cared how much money I make or what job I do or where I live or where we go or how much weight I gained, for as long as you were with me, you were happy.

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Break Up Notes

I don't hate you I just don’t care about you.

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Letter to Teachers

I got an invitation from my elementary school. They wanted me to speak at the graduation. The letter also contained how proud they are of my achievements – the movie scripts I have written, tv shows I have created, and books I have published. They said that they are proud to have me as an alumnus.

To my elementary school, please don’t be proud. I feel no attachment with you. When I was there, you ignored me. I was just a fat kid in your eyes. You didn’t even want me to participate in school programs because I was too fat.

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I Know You Have Someone Else

It was easier for me to pretend I was  asleep than have to face the fact that 

you were in love with someone else  but it’s just a choice between hurting now or later... Now, I guess...

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